Sympathy for the Spouse
Apr. 10th, 2026 10:10 pmGretchen notes that in the responses to yesterday's post there was absolutely no one who was sympathizing with the surgery to remove her wisdom tooth yesterday. This is what happens when I write a long technical discussion as part of the post, it seems.
Gretchen's stomach today decided that it would demonstrate why sympathy was in order. One of the pills that she was taking seems to have produced some extreme stomach upset and -- well, dynamic disassembly of the contents of the stomach onto the floor. More than once.
Dinner was some egg noodles that I boiled for her and that has stayed put so far, which is a major improvement.
Gretchen suspects that the problem was with the hydrocodone pain reliever, which she is now omitting from the regimen.
We'll see how things go.
Gretchen's stomach today decided that it would demonstrate why sympathy was in order. One of the pills that she was taking seems to have produced some extreme stomach upset and -- well, dynamic disassembly of the contents of the stomach onto the floor. More than once.
Dinner was some egg noodles that I boiled for her and that has stayed put so far, which is a major improvement.
Gretchen suspects that the problem was with the hydrocodone pain reliever, which she is now omitting from the regimen.
We'll see how things go.
They Say It's Your Birthday
Oct. 22nd, 2025 09:57 pmToday was the second day of meetings in the Loop. Everything went well and when we were done, I lit out for the train home, because today is Gretchen's birthday.
After some brief negotiations, it turned out that what Gretchen really wanted for dinner included the deep fried mushrooms from Mr. Beef and Pizza, so I went out and grabbed dinner for us there. (I had already picked up Julie's dinner from Subway.) Then I went to Omega and bought cheesecake slices for the assembly.
Everyone is quite full. And happy.
That's a good result for a birthday. :)
After some brief negotiations, it turned out that what Gretchen really wanted for dinner included the deep fried mushrooms from Mr. Beef and Pizza, so I went out and grabbed dinner for us there. (I had already picked up Julie's dinner from Subway.) Then I went to Omega and bought cheesecake slices for the assembly.
Everyone is quite full. And happy.
That's a good result for a birthday. :)
Post-Lunch Funnies
Dec. 24th, 2024 03:56 pmI walked out of lunch over at the Beacon Tap, got in my car, and looked out the passenger side window at the stores across the street. A light pole was perfectly positioned so that I read the name of one store: "Advance Auto Farts".
I related this to Gretchen when I got home and she hurt herself laughing and responded "They must specialize in exhaust work."
This is (one of the reasons) why I married this woman...
I related this to Gretchen when I got home and she hurt herself laughing and responded "They must specialize in exhaust work."
This is (one of the reasons) why I married this woman...
Out of Order
Oct. 22nd, 2023 05:54 pmI took Gretchen out to Texas Roadhouse for her birthday lunch, where we ate *way* too much food. This is partially responsible for the fact that we're now getting ready to have strawberry shortcake for dessert before having dinner. I smell shortcake in the oven, so I should finish things up here and get downstairs.
In the meantime, while Gretchen was out with Julie looking at autumn leaves, I have been doing a variety of Windycon things and have just now placed the last of the CD orders for OVFF with the people who I actually expect to see there. :)
This is an *interesting* way to spend Gretchen's birthday. Maybe not optimal, but *interesting*.
In the meantime, while Gretchen was out with Julie looking at autumn leaves, I have been doing a variety of Windycon things and have just now placed the last of the CD orders for OVFF with the people who I actually expect to see there. :)
This is an *interesting* way to spend Gretchen's birthday. Maybe not optimal, but *interesting*.
Live In Germany (mostly...)
Sep. 24th, 2023 08:44 pmFor those of you who have seen my mumblings about time in the studio and for those of you who may have seen Steve Macdonald's various posts on the subject, the project is done and submitted to the duplicator. :)
This is a joint production of Steve's Triskelion Productions and our Dodeka Records which has taken the concerts that Gretchen and I had at DFDF back in 2019 and has produced an album (along with a recording of "Apology" that Mark Peters kindly contributed from his OVFF archives, because recording is like that...). Steve did the mixing for the album, while I did the clean up and mastering and the occasional squeezing, because 74:08 is too long for a standard CD, while 73:59 fits nicely inside of 74:00.
This would not have happened if Steve hadn't gotten behind it and pushed. I am very happy that he did.
You can see the artwork -- and the track list! -- here: https://www.oasiscd.com/MyAccount/Viewer/?p=URTmjSbPbTszVWqFdWhP2uyHUdcUb50urkRD6yq233Q%3d
And, if anything goes according to plan, we will have albums at OVFF.
This is a joint production of Steve's Triskelion Productions and our Dodeka Records which has taken the concerts that Gretchen and I had at DFDF back in 2019 and has produced an album (along with a recording of "Apology" that Mark Peters kindly contributed from his OVFF archives, because recording is like that...). Steve did the mixing for the album, while I did the clean up and mastering and the occasional squeezing, because 74:08 is too long for a standard CD, while 73:59 fits nicely inside of 74:00.
This would not have happened if Steve hadn't gotten behind it and pushed. I am very happy that he did.
You can see the artwork -- and the track list! -- here: https://www.oasiscd.com/MyAccount/Viewer/?p=URTmjSbPbTszVWqFdWhP2uyHUdcUb50urkRD6yq233Q%3d
And, if anything goes according to plan, we will have albums at OVFF.
Bits and Pieces
May. 10th, 2023 10:12 pmGretchen has asked me to thank everyone for the good wishes on her shingles. She now has antivirals *and* a can of lidocaine spray, which she says is "a gift from God".
K got an award today at the high school drama awards for playing a crazed murderer in a comedy farce. We are assured that this is not type casting.
We greatly enjoyed the finale of "The Company You Keep" and are hoping that it catches a renewal. Meanwhile, "True Lies" got the ax, which was not a surprise. "East New York" *also* got axed, apparently because CBS wanted more concessions than Warner Bros. was willing to deliver. We'll miss it some, but it is a bad sign for a series when all of the supporting characters seem to be more interesting than the lead. (Your mileage may vary.)
Meanwhile, we're wondering if Kara Killmer is planning to leave "Chicago Fire" after this season. It wouldn't be a great surprise to us or apparently to much of anyone else, at least looking around online. Meanwhile, I was greatly amused by the guys in the firehouse complaining about the lead character in some firefighting series they were watching having a beard and how his mask would never seal with that thing. I looked over at Gretchen and said, "So does the lead on 'Fire Country' have a beard?" Apparently so...
And will they *ever* find anything really interesting on "The Curse of Oak Island"? One more episode for this season, so I guess we'll see what turns up.
I guess we're watching a lot of TV as the season heads to an end.
K got an award today at the high school drama awards for playing a crazed murderer in a comedy farce. We are assured that this is not type casting.
We greatly enjoyed the finale of "The Company You Keep" and are hoping that it catches a renewal. Meanwhile, "True Lies" got the ax, which was not a surprise. "East New York" *also* got axed, apparently because CBS wanted more concessions than Warner Bros. was willing to deliver. We'll miss it some, but it is a bad sign for a series when all of the supporting characters seem to be more interesting than the lead. (Your mileage may vary.)
Meanwhile, we're wondering if Kara Killmer is planning to leave "Chicago Fire" after this season. It wouldn't be a great surprise to us or apparently to much of anyone else, at least looking around online. Meanwhile, I was greatly amused by the guys in the firehouse complaining about the lead character in some firefighting series they were watching having a beard and how his mask would never seal with that thing. I looked over at Gretchen and said, "So does the lead on 'Fire Country' have a beard?" Apparently so...
And will they *ever* find anything really interesting on "The Curse of Oak Island"? One more episode for this season, so I guess we'll see what turns up.
I guess we're watching a lot of TV as the season heads to an end.
Change of Plans
Mar. 7th, 2023 09:18 pmNormally, Gretchen would have taken Julie to school this morning. Unfortunately, her lower back imploded and sent various unkind messages, so I got up, borrowed her van, and took both kids to school.
She has spent the day upstairs, nursing the back along with Aleve and ice packs.
We'll see how it does tomorrow.
She has spent the day upstairs, nursing the back along with Aleve and ice packs.
We'll see how it does tomorrow.
25 is Silver, Right?
Aug. 27th, 2019 10:33 pmAs of today, Gretchen and I have been married for 25 years. This is a bit of a surprise to us, as it doesn't *feel* like it's been 25 years. And, yet, here we are.
25 years ago, it was no surprise to our friends, many of whom were looking at us and wondering what had taken us so long. Some people may not have noticed the difference. :)
There are rough patches now and again, but that's the way of life. And the rough patches are *far* outnumbered by the good stretches of road.
Look! There's the road stretching out toward the horizon.
I wonder where we're going next.
25 years ago, it was no surprise to our friends, many of whom were looking at us and wondering what had taken us so long. Some people may not have noticed the difference. :)
There are rough patches now and again, but that's the way of life. And the rough patches are *far* outnumbered by the good stretches of road.
Look! There's the road stretching out toward the horizon.
I wonder where we're going next.
Timing Is Everything
Aug. 26th, 2018 11:09 pmGretchen noted to me, "Do you know how to remember when our anniversary is?"
"No," I replied. "How should I do it?"
"Find the day in the end of August when there is something that you want to do that I don't want to do. That will be our anniversary."
This is slightly unfair, but not entirely. A couple of years ago, I went to see Billy Joel in concert at Wrigley Field. On our anniversary, as I discovered after I bought the tickets.
This year, I made plans to go see the Cubs play the Mets at Wrigley Field on Monday night.
On our anniversary.
This is an annoying pattern that I am going to attempt not to repeat next year, as that will be our 25th anniversary and it would be nice to actually spend it together.
In the meantime, we decided to celebrate our anniversary today. After we got back from the pool (which closed for the season today), I grilled some lovely steaks from Mariano's; then after dinner, we had cheesecake for dessert. (Because, as we remind Katie, any restaurant with cheesecake is a sufficiently fancy restaurant, at least according to Katie.)
It was a fine day.
And tomorrow, Gretchen and I will have been married for 24 years.
Happy anniversary, love.
"No," I replied. "How should I do it?"
"Find the day in the end of August when there is something that you want to do that I don't want to do. That will be our anniversary."
This is slightly unfair, but not entirely. A couple of years ago, I went to see Billy Joel in concert at Wrigley Field. On our anniversary, as I discovered after I bought the tickets.
This year, I made plans to go see the Cubs play the Mets at Wrigley Field on Monday night.
On our anniversary.
This is an annoying pattern that I am going to attempt not to repeat next year, as that will be our 25th anniversary and it would be nice to actually spend it together.
In the meantime, we decided to celebrate our anniversary today. After we got back from the pool (which closed for the season today), I grilled some lovely steaks from Mariano's; then after dinner, we had cheesecake for dessert. (Because, as we remind Katie, any restaurant with cheesecake is a sufficiently fancy restaurant, at least according to Katie.)
It was a fine day.
And tomorrow, Gretchen and I will have been married for 24 years.
Happy anniversary, love.